are you in favor or against divorce?

Lourie Mcroberts: I'm against marriage does that answer your question?

Chauncey Williama: does he seem like he is putting forth the effort to make things work??helping out around the house making sure that your are being taken care of ??

Jorge Gerrero: In favor - if you're married to someone who abuses you, especially physically, or your spouse cheats on you, then you should have every RIGHT to get a divorce.

Mitchell Pickens: a lot of that depends on the circumstances .. if its abusive then i can see and understand wanting a divorce ... but just because one got bored ... or taking each other for granted .. i think these things should try to be worked out ...

Ayesha Genova: Its a bit of both. you have to mourn your old life, but you also get a new beginning.

Shawn Lelis: I've never had that relationship. I've believed in walking down the aisle then moving in with my spouse.

Hong Hunkin: i am in favor of divorce if and only if the couple! loses the love and respect to each other.

Dawn Saha: Favor cause my husband ended up a diffrent man to the one i married..

Antonia Boomershine: Definitely in favor, why have two people miserable if the marriage is over, especially difficult for children to see or hear parents quarrel.

Rebbecca Sorkin: depends on one's circumstance

Jeff Frizzell: I hate the thought of divorce. It would be great if no one every had to get one. Unfortunately, there are circumstances when it is absolutely necessary. I do, however, wish that people realized that "the rest of you life" is a very, very long time, before saying "I do".

Ramona Pago: If it is a 6month orgasim then I want one, if it means that I can enjoy a vagina or two....im in too! Yah I want to say its like a birth...never been but if I need to someday, I will take that view....I get a 6-month orgasm and slide out a giant vagina!

Connie Dickirson: Yep. No contract, no commitment. Simple. Do ! the math.

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Omar Phipps: I disagree. Divorce is like an enormously freeing six month orgasm.

Joni Ziak: if i felt i am no longer in love with him, and the love we do have for each other is not enough, leaving him could be the one thing to make me fall for him all over again. When you distance yourself from your partner, you almost always see him in a different light. If that light is good, you ll fall for him again.

Palmira Lochridge: Talk girl ... talk talk and talk = )

Claudio Drullard: Not to sure how you can fall in love again when you are still with them! and in love with them after the 5 year mark. At least I know Im still very much in love with my man after 5 years

Rebbecca Sorkin: It depends. I am against divorce for selfish reasons. Say people have been married for years with children - what the heck.Husband/wife cheating? Get over it if you can. That is part of our life reality.If there are serious issues on board like threat to partner's life/abuse then ok(if there is no room for change).Humanbeings are becoming more and more selfish. Married for money? Then divorce for money = selfish reasons.My advice - do not marry if you cannot share whole heartedly....Show more

Isaias Badgley: Im already in love and been...I never lost that feeling

Luke Kosch: You ask him, you communicate, you talk about how things are going, you make sure you check in with the relationship. Basicaly, you talk to and ask HIM and not people on Y!A. If you don't feel comfortable asking or talking about these things, then you bot! h have some work to do on being real.

Byron Fortmann: Against.Not! right for you,Not right for your spouseNot right for your childrenNot right for your parentsNot right for your God.Consider the commitment carefully, if you cannot, then don't get married.Marriage is NOT the problem.Rushing into it carelessly IS.Divorce is NOT the solution.Don't get married if you are not committed in the first place IS....Show more

Virgil Menefee: If you are in a relationship 5 years or more.

Geraldo Mccalla: Against and its not a religous thing Its the fact that you bail on a commitent

Buster Buchko: Against. Divorce is the death of a family. Adultery is the only reason for divorce, other things can be worked out if both try.

Stevie Goldey: Definitely in favour, what coudl be worse than staying in an unhappy marriage? Especially if children have to live with it

Lester Haschke: I disagree. I believe that divorce is more like a death because the relationship that you made a commitment to keep till death do you part is now over! and you are not dead. So how is it like a birth? I guess the divorce rate is so high because so many people see it as a birth. I mean if someone is abusing you, then yes it may be a rebirth. But the power of forgiveness is amazing and it is something that most people in this world do not value anymore. I am married and my husband and I have definitely been through ups and downs, but I can't imagine being divorced and living my life with my son without his father....Show more

Codi Manchel: I'm a Christian so I believe that Marriage is sacred.. however. if you are abused either physically or verbally, or your children are, then of course I think you owe it to yourself to leave your mate. I think there are boundaries. Such as, if your husband/wife is a Pervert, or has an addiction that they can't quite and it's destroying the family life, you have to take stand. You can always get back together, but for the health and well being of everybody, somethings just have to! be done. If you are just unhappy, then I think you should get counsell! ing and try to fill that void with something that makes you happy and see if there is an improvement. Medication can cause some serious effects, so talk to your physician too before you leave. That's just my opinion. I'm not married, but come from a broken home. I also think it should be done and over fast, or not at all. Children aren't suppose to get brought into it, but do ultimately. It's denile if you think otherwise....Show more

Billie Bratchett: neither, if you cant decide before marriage then you shouldnt get married

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Cole Desher: Disagree, why? Its not a rebirth cause all that garbage is still with you. Some people who do get divorced are embarrassed to be labeled as a failure or someone didn't love them. I am one of them. For me its embarrassing to be labeled as a divorcee when I had to divorce my exhubby cause he did drugs yet I still love him. Don't figure so its like death to me. All your emotions and feelings die.

Elaina ! Adolfson: Entirely in favor; grew up in a violent household at a time when divorce was highly frowned upon; too bad -- could have made a difference had my mother felt she had some choice in whether she stayed or left. However, just as marriage shouldn't be taken lightly, nor should divorce. There are truly deplorable circumstances that demand the severance of a relationship, but also those that may shift to the more positive and workable given mutual effort and desire.

Alisia Sutphen: I really can't imagine much of anything that would cause that currently.

Alisa Kaleiwahea: AGREE!!!! I feel so rejuvenated!

Gerardo Greist: I never stopped loving him. The love simply gets stronger over time.

Devon Kalberer: I think it should be more difficult to marry, and easier to divorce. It's hard on kids to have to watch their parents fight, or who just don't love each other and make each other miserable.

Colby Millberg: i kinda favor it because if your ! partner keeps hurting you. you should have the right to leave him or he! r

Marcia Cheathan: you don't unless he tells you

Jon Bergmeier: Religion probably has a lot to do with most people's views. In all honestly, I'm not all for gay marriage, mainly for scientific reasons meaning, if everyone were gay, how will the human race reproduce and evolve. But since that isn't a problem right now, and since i'm very open to the constitution of the united states, I'm compelled to let it be. Time and time again we allow the rights of those in protest be trampled over simply because the majority wishes it to be, even though the wishes of our founders forbid it. If you view my profile, you'll see I've answered against my own belief's simply because of this fact. I may not support many of the things I've stood by, but its only because politicians use this majority of support to make money, while the minority suffers. If two gay persons want to marry, I really don't care, so long as they don't impose it on me and don't impose it on my kids. Truth ! is, i've seen people show up at my door trying to impose their religion on my family, i've never seen a gay person try to impose their sexual-ism in that manner. The constitution, you know, the thing that politicians, wipe their butts with, don't look at it that way, they look at majority and majority only because that is what wins elections. I'm an independent, however the republican party is more prone to use religion to stand by their political motives, to answer your question. Not saying the other side can't do the side, just more likely. What people do in their own home is their own business so long as they don't try to include my family in on it, and this doesn't just apply to sexuality, it applies to religion, politics and several other factors involving the pollution of an education of an American. In today's times, I am seeing the constitution of the united states being violated nearly every single day, considering this, despite my scientific concerns, i'm compelle! d to stand by gay rights regardless of the fact that i'm straight, and ! I encourage others to do the same. I do this solely to preserve the laws in which our nation was founded on, and not the loopholes in which our elected politicians strive hard to cash in on for power, money and conquest. I don't remember reading about gay rights in the constitution, so leave it alone. They want to marry, what is it to you? Oh Yeah, its MONEY and VOTES! Get over it, your time is limited as society is learning your ways. Get over it, its only a matter of time until education conquers the green of politics. The constitution was never meant to favor the majority over the minority, it was meant to favor equal rights, period. It's ashame politicians have twisted it to mean something else in their favor....Show more

Emile Okafor: Why?

Collin Barter: I'd have to say that I haven't fallen out of love - ever...even when we've had our trials and tribulations.

Willetta Munhall: I'm in favor of it. People take it for granted. There was a time in this ! country where you weren't allowed to divorce. and no matter what happend, you had to be stuck with an asshole u hate. its a escape claus so people can pursue happiness. Also, that is why that king beheaded all his wives becuase divorce wasnt allowed so he had to cut thier heads off to remarry. If individuals dont want to divorce thats fine, but they souldnt be against it for society as a whoole. its really a blessing and its just too bad that people dont see that....Show more

Dick Ovdenk: I wouldn't say in favour exactly but sometimes it's necessary depending on the situation. My Mother and Father for example, my Father used to beat my mother almost to death, if it wasn't for divorce she would be dead by now.

Randall Twehous: I think that it's both. I think that it's like a death because you are losing a very special and important person in your life. I am going through a divorce now and I swear it felt like a death. But it's like a birth because it is be begini! ng of a new person and a new life for the divorcée. I feel like I have! been given a chance to love again.

Rhett Kaines: neither however as humans, change is imminent and it can happen to anyone so I will agree only when the reason for doing so will benefit all the people involve.

Tyrone Disanti: One should try the very best to save a marriage. But when it reaches a point of no love, no trust, no respect - there is no point staying in a failed relationship.

Abby Herwood: favor if there is just no way that the couple is happy or safe together then why should they stay together and make life that's already short as it is miserable

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